We're in a quandary over naps with my 3 yo. If he gets a nap he is cheerful and playful all evening, but has a hard time getting to sleep at night. I mean sometimes he's still awake at 10:30 singing songs in bed! But if he doesn't get a nap, he's crabby and ornery and we can barely stand it until we get him in bed. But he goes to sleep quickly and soundly.

How have others handled this transition. I'm not sure which way to go!