02-25-2009, 3:06 PM
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what do you do in an attempt to avoid your teens getting pregnant?
i definitely talk to my kids about sex, relationships, and babies too soon. they also have to help out with our babies- change diapers make bottles, etc. they do complain it is hard work and they HATE diapers. but my FAVORITE thing is i LOVE taking them to the store with me when all i need is baby supplies for the week- food, formula, diapers, wipes, etc. they are STILL floored when the total can easily be $50...just for the baby. i like to remind them that babies are expensive.
there was also one time when my then 10 year old dd said she couldn't wait to have a baby....when she was a teenager (YIKES!) because she wanted someone to love. we happened to have a newborn in the house at that time, so we got her up all night long- whenever we got up to take care of the baby, she got up with us. the next morning she was SO exhausted...she just said, "i didn't know he woke up all night, babies make me tired. nevermind." lol! i really am going for the more practical "babies are hard and cost alot of money, you probably want to try and wait" road. i hope it helps.  what are you doing?             
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10-21-2010, 9:47 AM
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Dear friend
What I feel is that as a parents one can prevent teen pregnancy by getting involved in their teen's lives. Talks to your teen everyday and tell them that you are there for them. Get interested in what your teen is interested in and if they have no interests, help them find some. Be active as a family and show your unconditional love. The more you are involved with your teen, the more you will be able to keep a track upon there action. You should also try to have direct communication with your teens on the issues like teen pregnancy and the issues related to it.
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06-18-2011, 5:04 PM
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I don't have teens, but just knowing babies are expensive doesn't make teens not have sex. They may think they're "safe" and not really be. Even if you prefer abstinence (I know I do!) make sure they know they can talk to you about sex and that if they insist on having sex, you'll make sure they have birth control available. Also, make sure they know how to use it.
Some teens don't want to get pregnant, but they don't wanna give up sex. That's where the big hang up can be. If your teen wants to get pregnant to be loved, that's a warning sign that she needs more attention from you. Make sure to take time to listen to her and let her know how much YOU love her so she'll feel less need to be loved by someone else.
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